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The mother of NASCAR driver Denny Hamlin made an emotional plea to Gaston County officials this week for increased fire department funding after she nearly lost her life in a North Carolina fire that killed her husband in December.
Mary Lou Hamlin, 69, delivered a heartbreaking account of the Dec. 28 house fire that killed her husband, 75-year-old Dennis Hamlin, and reduced the family home to rubble.
Denny Hamlin watches prior to a NASCAR Cup Series auto race at Charlotte Motor Speedway on Sunday, Oct. 5, 2025, in Concord, North Carolina. (AP Photo/Matt Kelley, File)
“I’m sorry, I tried not to cry,” a tearful Mary Lou Hamlin said as she spoke before the Gaston County Board of Commissioners on Tuesday.
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“December 28 was one of the saddest days of my life. It was the last time I saw my husband of 52 years when I pulled him out of our burning home. In addition to losing my husband, I lost everything from my entire life.”
Dennis and Mary Lou Hamlin were found outside the two-story home near Stanley suffering from what officials at the time called catastrophic damage. Dennis Hamlin later died of his injuries at a hospital, while his wife was transferred to a specialist hospital in Winston-Salem for treatment of her burn injuries.
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“I didn’t realize at the time that the fire trucks were there but not the water,” Mary Lou Hamlin continued Tuesday.
“There was no water to put out my house. I’m advocating for funds to come in this year’s budget – emergency preparedness training, extra equipment, manning, as you’ve just heard, are just a few things that need to help strengthen fire protection in our area, where funds are badly needed.

Denny Hamlin, driver of the #11 Progressive Toyota, exits his car after the NASCAR Cup Series Championship at Phoenix Raceway on November 2, 2025 in Avondale, Arizona. (James Gilbert/Getty Images)
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Denny Hamlin’s sister, Lisa Chapman, also appeared before the board and recalled her shock upon arriving at the scene.
“There’s nothing worse than pulling up to the house on fire and seeing everyone standing in the way,” she said through tears. “No water is thrown on the fire.”



