From its inception, the American presidency has tied enormous destructive capacity to the temperament of a single individual. It is an office that combines authority with impulse by placing a military juggernaut in the hands of one person.
Alice Roosevelt distilled this dynamic with biting precision. She said her father (President Roosevelt) wanted “to be the corpse at every funeral, the bride at every wedding and the child at every christening”. Beneath the witness lay the accusation of an unbound ego.
Today, this strain of vanity has been eclipsed by Donald Trump. Ego is no longer an attribute; it is doctrine. It has turned statecraft into spectacle, where personal whims masquerade as reality and contradiction is insubordination. What emerges is not mere volatility, but a corrosive force that destabilizes the very architecture of the international order.
This pathology is not limited to one geography. In South Asia, Narendra Modi’s initiation of the failed Operation Sindhoor reflected the same instinct that conjured crises to manifest power. Between nuclear rivals, such theaters are ruthless. They place millions within blast radius of a narcissist’s need to appear unassailable.
Moving forward, clinical insight provides clarity. Mary Trump is a psychologist and Donald Trump’s niece. She describes a “monstrous ego” that has reduced the Oval Office to an arena of impulse and dominance. She describes the cabinet not as an ensemble of peers, but as a gathering of “weaker, more craven and just as desperate” initiators. Loyalty is measured by the willingness to echo.
Governance inevitably mutates into spectacle. Its logic is laid bare in self-inscribed tokens of power like Trump’s commemorative gold coins and his signatures adorning future currency notes. Contagiously, it results in loyalists curating the same iconography. Kash Patel’s personalized sneakers with his and the FBI initials for Pete Hegseth’s eye-catching tattoos; governance turns into a lane of narcissism.
The most dangerous manifestation of this dogma is what psychologists term narcissistic injury. This is when reality refuses to submit. In ordinary people, the damage is contained. With a president, it detonates outwards. Slights are magnified and setbacks are adjusted. Decision-making breaks down to reflex. Actions are calibrated to preserve the ego and become increasingly indifferent to consequences.
The purge within the Pentagon is the clearest expression of this pathology—a punitive act to devour wounded pride. At such moments, governance ceases to be a tool of statecraft and becomes an apparatus of psychological self-preservation. Senior commanders are removed not for failure, but for resisting one.
Downed planes, missing crew members and an adversary unwilling to conform confirm professional reluctance. The prospect of trapped personnel threatens to turn a setback into a spectacle. At such a moment restraint becomes impossible.
Escalation is no longer a choice, but a compulsion, a fierce necessity to overwrite failure with force. What follows is not a strategy, but an increasingly dangerous raising of the stake to save the pride. This is the true logic of an egocracy.
Under such conditions, truth inevitably becomes malleable. It is distorted, diluted or outright discarded. The pattern is not new. The WMD claims that launched the 2003 invasion of Iraq were completely fabricated. The tragic reality that saw over a million perish was a clear testimony of what happens when deception is weaponized in the service of self-justification.
This paradigm is strongly visible again in the narratives that enabled the genocide in Gaza and the attacks on Iran. Curated intelligence reports and ever-changing justifications make a mockery of established facts. Reality is no longer a limitation; it is a hassle to be managed.
In ‘The Second Coming’, Yeats captured the birth of disorder: “What rough beast, its hour at last come round, Stalks towards Bethlehem to be born?” In his vision, the disintegration of the order heralded not a new one, but the emergence of something unrestrained and original. The destruction caused by narcissism is far more insidious. It does not come out of chaos; it constructs it. Conflict and disorder become an assertion about the self.
History offers a harsher mirror. The Roman emperor Caligula ruled through spectacle and fear. He was known for his cruelty in prolonging the suffering of his victims. Throughout their ordeal he had these words of the Roman tragedian Lucius Accius on his lips – oderint dum metuant – let them hate as long as they fear me. It captures the essence of power stripped of legitimacy and maintained only through fear.
In the modern era, such thinking has unprecedented stakes. The fusion of personal volatility with nuclear capability makes miscalculation existential. John Kennedy warned of such a world imposed by America’s war machine. He called it “grave peace or the safety of the slave” – submission or annihilation.
This is the catastrophic binary that we see being evoked from Gaza to Iran. The world remains riveted with Iran. Gaza, with its ongoing suffering, has become a sidelined tragedy. In one case, resistance forces attention; in the second, endurance slips out of sight.
The chilling distillation is that prudence has been subjugated to an unbounded ego. It simply cannot retreat, admit and most dangerously, it cannot stop. This is the ultimate manifestation of the Empire of the Ego.
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Originally published in The News
