James Van Der Beek often said that being a father was the greatest joy of his life, a sentiment that has taken on a deeper meaning after his death at the age of 48.
The Dawson’s Creek star died on Wednesday, February 11, after living with stage 3 colorectal cancer.
Throughout his illness and in the years leading up to it, Van Der Beek spoke openly about how much his six children meant to him and how becoming a father reshaped everything he valued.
The actor shared daughters Olivia, 15, Annabel, 12, Emilia, 9, and Gwendolyn, 7, as well as sons Joshua, 13, and Jeremiah, 4, with his wife, Kimberly Van Der Beek.
Friends and fans have since revisited his earlier reflections on fatherhood, most notably a 2023 interview in which he described parenthood as the happiest and most challenging role of his life.
speaks to Good morning America in May of that year, Van Der Beek said that becoming a parent fundamentally changed his priorities.
“God it really changes everything,” he said at the time.
“You just go for that shift … from putting yourself first to other people, these little tiny people that you love so much are your first priority.”
He said becoming a parent shifted his focus to caring for his children, wanting to make them feel safe, protected and emotionally connected and finding true joy in that bond.
He also explained that fatherhood broadened his sense of purpose as life and happiness became something shared rather than centered on personal fulfillment.
He described parenthood as a constant learning experience and said it was the most intense thing he had ever done, but also the one that brought him the greatest happiness.
Kimberly confirmed her husband’s death in a heartfelt Instagram post on Wednesday, writing that he had “passed peacefully this morning”. She added that he faced his final days “with courage, faith and grace”.
“There is much to share regarding his wishes, love for humanity and the sanctity of time,” she wrote, asking for “peaceful privacy as we mourn our loving husband, father, son, brother and friend”.
Following the announcement, Kimberly also shared a link to a GoFundMe set up by a family friend to support her and the children.
The site explains that the family is facing financial uncertainty after several years of medical expenses related to Van Der Beek’s cancer treatment.
“The cost of James’ medical treatment and extended battle with cancer has left the family penniless,” the statement read.
“They are working hard to stay in their homes and to ensure that the children can continue their education and maintain some stability during this incredibly difficult time.”
Donations, it adds, will go towards essential living expenses, household bills and the children’s education, helping the family find “hope and security” as they move forward.
Van Der Beek was diagnosed with colon cancer in 2023.
Even as he battled the disease, those closest to him say his focus never wavered from his role as a father, a part of his life he repeatedly described as his greatest happiness.
